Child custody lawyers helping solve child arrangements issues
A Child Arrangements Order is a Children Act 1989 court order deciding who a child lives with and how much time they spend with each parent. It replaced the old ‘residence’ and ‘contact’ orders in 2014, though existing orders from before then remain valid. Nelsons’ child custody lawyers in Nottingham, Leicester and Derby help separating parents agree workable arrangements directly, and represent clients in court where that isn’t possible.
Most parents can agree arrangements without going to court. Where that’s not possible, we act quickly to protect your relationship with your child.
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Our Child Arrangements Services
Whatever stage your situation is at, from a first disagreement to a contested court application, here’s where our team can help.
What Is a Child Arrangements Order?
A Child Arrangements Order decides where a child lives, called ‘live with’, and how much time they spend with the other parent, called ‘spend time with’. Courts can order shared living arrangements, or a single home base with time spent elsewhere. The ‘live with’ element of an order can last until a child turns 18, unless a court ends it earlier.
Agreeing Arrangements Without Court
Court is a last resort, not a first step. We help parents agree arrangements directly or through mediation, which is usually faster, cheaper and less stressful. Since 2014, most applicants must attend a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM) before applying to court, unless there’s a history of domestic abuse or an urgent child protection concern.
Applying to Court
Where agreement isn’t possible, we prepare and issue the application under section 8 of the Children Act 1989. The court’s paramount consideration is the child’s welfare, assessed against the welfare checklist in section 1(3) of the Act. Cafcass may prepare a report on the family’s circumstances before a final hearing. The court will consider factors including the child’s needs, wishes and feelings (depending on age and understanding), any risks identified and each parent’s ability to meet the child’s needs.
What Happens After a Child Arrangements Application Is Issued?
Once an application has been issued, CAFCASS will usually carry out safeguarding checks and prepare a safeguarding letter for the court. The court will then list a First Hearing Dispute Resolution Appointment (FHDRA), where attempts are made to resolve issues and identify what further evidence, if any, is required. Depending on the issues in dispute, the court may direct statements, a CAFCASS report, expert evidence or a finding of fact hearing before making a final decision.
Cases Involving Domestic Abuse Allegations
Allegations of domestic abuse can have a significant impact on arrangements for children. The court may need to determine disputed allegations before deciding what arrangements are in a child’s best interests. We regularly advise both applicants and respondents in these cases.
Prohibited Steps and Specific Issue Orders
Alongside a Child Arrangements Order, the court can make a Prohibited Steps Order, stopping a parent doing something specific such as changing a child’s school, or a Specific Issue Order, resolving a disagreement such as religion or medical treatment. Both sit under section 8 of the Children Act 1989, alongside the Child Arrangements Order itself.
Relocation Disputes
If one parent wishes to move with a child, either within the UK or overseas, agreement should usually be obtained from everyone with parental responsibility. Where agreement is not possible, the court may need to decide whether relocation is in the child’s best interests.
Urgent Applications
In urgent cases, such as where there are concerns a child may be removed from the jurisdiction or exposed to harm, applications can sometimes be made without notice to the other parent.
Enforcing an Order
If the other parent isn’t complying with an existing order, we can apply to enforce it. The court takes breaches seriously, and has a range of powers, from directing additional time to make up for what was missed, through to, in serious cases, an unpaid work requirement. If circumstances have changed significantly since the order was made, it may be more appropriate to apply to vary the order rather than enforce it.
A Common Misconception: “50/50 Is the Default”
There’s no automatic starting point of equal time, and no presumption that favours mothers or fathers. Every arrangement is decided by reference to what’s best for that particular child, under the welfare checklist in section 1(3) of the Children Act 1989.
How We Support Child Arrangements Cases
Every family’s situation is different, but our approach follows a consistent path, shaped by our Client Service Charter.
- Your first conversation: We listen to your situation and explain your options in plain English, agreeing a clear scope of work before anything starts.
- Trying to reach an agreement: Where safe and appropriate, we explore direct negotiation or mediation first, since this is usually quicker and less stressful for everyone, especially children.
- Court application, if needed: Prepare the right application, whether a Child Arrangements Order, Prohibited Steps Order or Specific Issue Order, and manage the process from issue to final hearing.
- Staying informed: You’ll have a named contact with a direct dial and mobile number, and every matter is supervised by a Partner or Legal Director.
- Reaching a resolution: Many cases conclude by consent, without a final hearing. Where a hearing is needed, we prepare thoroughly and represent you robustly.
Why Choose Nelsons for Child Arrangements
Our reputation comes from decades of family law casework in the East Midlands, and from named recognition in the legal directories.
- Verified specialist team: Rina Mistry lists Child Arrangements explicitly among their areas of expertise; Melanie Bridgen regularly handles complex child arrangements proceedings, including cases with an international.

- Recognised by the legal directories: Ranked Tier 1 by The Legal 500 for family law in the East Midlands, with recognition from Chambers and Partners for public and private children law.
- Resolution and Law Society accredited: Our wider team includes Resolution-accredited specialists and Law Society Family and Children Panel members.
Ready to Discuss Your Situation?
Whether you need to formalise an agreement or resolve a dispute, we’ll help you find the most direct route forward.
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Meet the team
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Melanie BridgenPartner & Solicitor
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Emma DaviesPartner & Solicitor
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Gayle RowleyPartner, Solicitor & Mediator
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Jeremy WardLegal Director & Solicitor
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Rina MistryLegal Director & Solicitor
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Child Arrangement Order Solicitors FAQS
Below, we have answered some frequently asked questions concerning child living arrangements
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What is a Child Arrangement Order?
A Children Act 1989 court order deciding who a child lives with and how much time they spend with the other parent. It replaced the old residence and contact orders in 2014.
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Do I have to attend mediation before going to court?
In most cases, yes. You’ll need to attend a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM) before applying to court, unless there’s a history of domestic abuse or an urgent child protection concern.
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Can we agree a 50/50 shared living arrangement?
Yes, if that’s genuinely in the child’s best interests. There’s no automatic entitlement to equal time, and no presumption in either parent’s favour; every arrangement is assessed on the child’s welfare.
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What does CAFCASS do?
CAFCASS is an independent organisation that advises the family court. In most cases, a CAFCASS officer will carry out safeguarding checks and may speak to the parents and children before making recommendations to the court.
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How long does a Child Arrangements Order last?
A Child Arrangements Order usually remains in force until a child reaches the age of 16, although some provisions can continue until the age of 18. The court can also vary or end an order earlier if circumstances change.
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How long does a Child Arrangements case take?
Every case is different. Applications that are agreed quickly may conclude within a few months, while more complex disputes can take significantly longer.
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Can I stop my child moving to another area?
If the proposed move would significantly affect the child’s relationship with you, you may be able to apply to the court for an order preventing relocation until the issue has been considered properly.
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What happens if my ex breaches the order?
You can apply to the court to enforce it. The court has a range of powers, from directing additional time with your child through to, in serious cases, an unpaid work requirement.
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Can grandparents apply for a Child Arrangements Order?
Grandparents don’t have an automatic right to apply, but can ask the court’s permission first. Courts weigh the grandparent’s existing relationship with the child and the reasons for any current lack of contact.
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Will my child have a say in the arrangements?
Their wishes and feelings are considered, weighted by their age and understanding, but children are never asked to choose between parents. The court’s focus stays on their overall welfare.
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What's a parenting plan?
A written agreement between parents setting out arrangements for their child. It isn’t approved by a court, but it’s good evidence of both parents’ intentions if a dispute arises later.
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