Common Marriage & Divorce Myths

At Nelsons, we are regularly asked the same questions by those looking to commence or who are already engaged in divorce proceedings, or are about to get married. The responses we provide can often surprise them. Here are some of the common marriage and divorce myths that we hear.

Common marriage and divorce myths

If I break up with my partner, do I have to return the engagement ring?

If you break off an engagement or bring your marriage to an end, you may feel a moral obligation to return the ring to your partner. However, the law states that ‘the gift of an engagement ring shall be presumed to be an absolute gift’. The only way this could be challenged is by proving the ring was given under the condition that it should be returned or if it is, for example, the family heirloom of the person seeking its return.

Is a prenuptial agreement legally binding?

While prenuptial agreements are worth having to protect marital assets, they are not strictly legally binding in the UK, particularly if the marriage is long-term and when there are children or dependents involved.

Despite not being entrenched in law, prenuptial agreements are increasingly being relied on and upheld in divorce if the circumstances are right. Having an agreement in place can reduce acrimony and increase certainty following the breakdown of a marriage and if done properly, can be persuasive and will certainly be considered by the court in the event of a divorce.

Is there always a 50/50 split of assets in a divorce?

Courts in the UK will always start with the basis of a 50/50 split of the matrimonial assets. However, this is not the outcome in every case, as referenced above. Several factors can mean the Court will deviate if it is fair and reasonable to do so. These factors include:

Is there such a thing as a quickie divorce?

Unsurprisingly, the most frequently asked question we receive is ‘How long will my divorce take?’. There is no hard and fast answer as it will always depend on a host of factors, from how busy the Courts are to how complex your financial matters are.

As a starting point, we often advise clients to expect a divorce to take an absolute minimum of six to 12 months.

Do I need a solicitor for a divorce?

While there is no legal requirement for you to appoint a solicitor for your divorce, it is strongly advised. People who attempt to conduct their divorces are often not aware of the issues it could present in the future.

While you may think that your relationship is totally severed, there are legal loopholes that could cause problems further down the line that would easily be identified by a legal professional. Therefore, to guarantee peace of mind, it’s best to approach an experienced team to ensure that your current and future finances are protected.