Why Christmas can be challenging for separated families
The festive season is meant to be joyful, but for separated parents, it can bring stress and uncertainty—especially around child arrangements. Disagreements about where children will spend Christmas Day, how holidays are divided, or last-minute changes can quickly escalate.
Mediation offers a practical, cost-effective, and speedy solution to these challenges. Unlike lengthy court proceedings, mediation allows parents to sit down with a neutral professional and work out arrangements that suit everyone—particularly the children.
Why choose mediation before Christmas?
Quick turnaround: Sessions can often be arranged within days, avoiding court delays.
Child-focused: Mediators help parents prioritise the needs and wishes of their children.
Flexible solutions: Agreements can be tailored to your family’s unique circumstances.
Reduced stress: Avoiding litigation means less conflict and more cooperation.
Common issues resolved through mediation
Christmas Day Arrangements
Who the children will spend Christmas morning with.
How to share time fairly between both parents and the extended family.
Holiday travel plans
Agreeing on trips abroad or visits to relatives.
Managing passports and consent for travel.
Gift giving and expenses
Coordinating presents to avoid duplication.
Agreeing on contributions for larger gifts.
Communication during the holidays
Setting expectations for calls or video chats when children are away.
Avoiding misunderstandings that can spoil the festive spirit.
How mediation works
Initial Meeting (MIAM): A confidential session to explain the process and assess suitability.
Joint Sessions: Both parties meet with the mediator in person or online to discuss issues and explore solutions.
Act now for a peaceful Christmas
If you’re facing uncertainty about child arrangements, don’t wait until tensions rise. Mediation can help you reach an agreement quickly, keeping the focus on what matters most—your children enjoying the festive season.
Ready to get started?
Contact us today for further information and to book your initial mediation meeting.
How can we help?
If you want to know more, please contact Harriet Starkey (Paralegal) or Gayle Rowley, Partner, and Mediator in our Family Law team, on 0800 024 1976 or via our online enquiry form, or book in for a Mediation Information and Assessment meeting by completing the mediation referral form here. Alternatively, if you already have a solicitor you can ask them to refer you if you prefer, see here.
Alternatively, if you don’t have legal representation and feel that you would benefit from legal advice instead, please contact Harriet or Gayle, who will be happy to discuss your circumstances in more detail and give you more information about the services that our family law solicitors can provide along with details of our hourly rates and fixed fee services.
Please contact Harriet or Gayle or another member of the team in Derby, Leicester, or Nottingham on 0800 024 1976 or via our online form.
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